Post-Election Blues
Election Day
Election day was exciting. I got to cast my vote for the best presidential candidate of my adulthood. Utah Mom and I waited in line for nearly an hour. We've never waited for any length of time at all in our precinct before. Enfranchisement! A great Latter-Day Saint was running and this predominately LDS community was feeling what Black Americans were feeling four years ago and again this time. Turnout was incredible in our little place. For me, Romney's faith was reason number 58 or so for why I liked him so much. Well, reason 18 anyway. I felt great about casting my vote. By about 5:30 PM, we were eating a nice dinner to celebrate our country's great tradition of free elections. I couldn't fight off a sinking feeling at dinner time.We quickly did bedtime and got the youngest tucked in for a good night's sleep. It wasn't long before things started looking very dismal. New Hampshire, Pennsylvania, Michigan, Iowa, Wisconsin; ouch. I didn't expect Romney to win many of those, but I really thought he would win one or two of them. When they called Ohio, I turned off my computer (I haven't had access to the networks on my TV for many years and have benefited greatly because of it). I went downstairs with my oldest and my wife and watched Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring. I had to watch something to capture my attention away from the disappointment.
So, What Happened!
I'm not an analyst. I know and respect a handful of people who voted for Obama. I don't understand them. I've heard their reasons and do not see any depth to them. But, I will not cut friendships over this! My pathetic limited attempt to explain what happened probably has more humor for people than enlightenment. I believe very, very few individuals voted for Obama. I think many groups voted against Romney. A few points that got my attention are below.- Among some circles, Sandra Fluke's lifestyle won support for Obama. Young people today are very lost souls searching for that which simply cannot occur-happiness in permissiveness. They won't ever be truly happy, but they will always vote. Never mind that their ads accusing Romney of secretly wanting to reverse "reproductive freedoms" were all false. I believe they almost all knew that. They were just desperately trying to pacify their "doubts of their doubts" over their own lifestyles. (https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1996/04/becometh-as-a-child?lang=eng) I realize many people who do not live in northern Virginia, Denver, New Hampshire, and other areas where these ads were running like water will quickly dismiss this as reason number 1. For those who live in these areas, help a friend out in the comments below. I've heard from so many that they ran incessantly for over a week before the election in many critical areas. I'm sorry to say it to my friends who consider themselves thoughtful Democrats, but the face and substance of your party has now changed. It isn't Thomas Jefferson, Woodrow Wilson, FDR, JFK, or even Hillary Clinton now. It is Sandra Fluke. That is the face of your party now. To anyone of serious reflection and conscience, you are a only a backstreet peep show now.
- In other circles, class warfare was engaged. I'm low to midland myself, so I can get away with calling the democrats tyrannical hypocrites where others may not. Romney and Obama were both millionaires. Most presidential candidates are. Neither were billionaires. One earned his way to the pinnacle of his career building businesses and creating jobs and the other did nothing. Please tell me what Obama has ever done for anyone anywhere. I'm open. I just can't believe that Chicago is really that much better because of him. Keep it. I don't want it. I will take New York over it any day. The class warfare angle helped in Ohio and Iowa. It was pounded into the poorer people that the reason things are so bad in the economy right now is because of the Mitt Romneys of the world. It worked. I think that Obama is not a very good president, but his people are the best spin doctors and strategists in the world. Did Romney err in the 47% comment? Yes, it is really about 51%.
- I could name a few others, but I want to turn the tables a quarter turn for my last point. Romney lost because of the tea party. The man Romney was the most substantial candidate for POTUS in my life time. Dennis Miller got it too. (I'm just saying.) I don't believe anyone else is even a possibility for a while who has a thumbnail of his sheer substance. Romney was also a center fielder and always had been. Our polarized nation made for a destructive and expensive primary process for Republicans. Romney came out of it with unintended baggage. He was made to look like a tea party style candidate to Americans who didn't know better. OK. Listen closely. I wish that Romney could have done more to convince voters of his own level-headedness in the face of the many extreme views from the far right. That is my first, last, and only criticism for Romney.
Forward
I'm sure I will recover and look at things more objectively in a couple years, but I can't stomach any of our choices right now. Our Republican Party is in better shape than the Democratic Party. Why? Because of my third reason above. We came together against all the odds and predictions. Romney won hugely among the tea party he wasn't a part of and among the southern Christians who used to say they would never vote for a Mormon. He won hugely among moderate Republicans who felt enlivened and empowered by his presence on the ticket (I know this one personally). He had Dennis Miller and Ann Coulter singing the same song. We really are the big tent and this election proved it rather than disproving it. The Democrats only proved that they were in a catatonic state of stale sameness without a fresh idea in sight. Misery loves company. Eventually, the cold comforted, limp, lame, lazy, mindless, shallow, thoughtless, hopeless, helpless, careless mass of codfish that is the independent voter will find a clue and come around for us. By their very nature, these people do get bored with the same rhetoric after a while. I also believe that good people who are Democrats will get past their racially minded thoughts and eventually see Obama for the failed extremist that he is.
I'm really not that optimistic, but I am trying.
